Reclaiming inner peace involves letting go of the things we cannot control, especially the actions and opinions of others. Often, our turmoil stems from allowing others to dictate our emotions, but true peace comes from focusing on ourselves rather than trying to change others. By shifting our attention inward and nurturing our connection with Allah, we can regain our strength and joy. This approach doesn't mean ignoring pain or tolerating abuse; it means establishing healthy boundaries and valuing our dignity. Ultimately, anchoring our hearts in Allah helps us withstand external disturbances and maintain our peace.

The concept of Taqwā involves being aware of Allah in every part of life, not just fearing Him. It means choosing to do the right thing, knowing Allah is always present. Taqwā encourages constant communication with Allah, sharing everything from worries to joys, and trusting Him to ease difficulties. The reward for Taqwā is Allah's closeness; He provides unexpected solutions and support. Taqwā transforms fear into trust and hardship into ease, ensuring we are never alone.

Envy can silently hold back our du’ās. When we question why others receive blessings while we wait, we forget that Allah’s treasures are limitless.

“If all of creation were to ask Me, and I gave everyone what they requested, it would not decrease My kingdom except as a needle decreases the ocean when dipped into it.” (Muslim)

Replace envy with gratitude, make du’ā for others, and trust that what is written for you will reach you at the perfect time.

Many people struggle with du’ā because they feel a disconnect from Allah. The reason? They know about Him, but they don’t truly know Him. Just as we naturally turn to those we trust and love for help, we will only feel comfortable asking Allah when we develop a deep relationship with Him. This is why knowing Allah (Ma‘rifatullah) is the foundation of Islam—it transforms du’ā from a mere request into a heartfelt conversation. Strengthening this connection makes du’ā effortless, fills life with trust and peace, and deepens our love for Allah.

Life’s challenges often feel like setbacks, but when viewed through the lens of Imān, they reveal hidden blessings. Every delay, loss, or hardship carries wisdom—whether it’s Allah protecting you, purifying you, or guiding you toward something better. What may seem like rejection is often redirection, and what feels like a loss may be a form of divine protection. Allah reminds us in the Qur’ān that we may dislike something while it is actually good for us (Surah Al-Baqarah 2:216). Trust in His plan, and you will find Khayr in every moment—even in what you don’t yet understand.

The Qur’ān repeatedly reassures women, emphasising emotional care with phrases like “Do not grieve” and “Do not be sad.” This divine pattern teaches men to be mindful of women’s emotions, treating them with kindness, patience, and understanding. Just as Allah comforts women in the Qur’ān, men should uplift and support the women in their lives. The Prophet ﷺ embodied this by being the best to his wives, showing that true strength lies in gentleness and mercy.

True peace comes from surrendering to Allah, trusting His wisdom, and believing that His plan is far better than our own.

We often hold onto worries and desires, thinking we can control outcomes, but real strength lies in letting go and placing our trust in Allah. He sees the struggles we can’t express, answers in ways beyond our understanding, and always grants what is best—even when it doesn’t align with our expectations.

When we truly believe in His perfect timing and infinite wisdom, we find contentment in His decree and peace in His mercy. Let go, trust Him, and know that He is always taking care of you.

A man in East Africa, struggling with depression, found healing through reciting Salawāt on the Prophet ﷺ. After dedicating a day to reciting, his life transformed, bringing peace, clarity, and blessings. Similarly, I experienced profound healing after my divorce through Salawāt, which guided me to the right people and resources, ultimately leading to blessings and peace.

Deen and dunya are not separate; rather, Islam is the foundation that shapes every part of life. Instead of trying to “balance” between the two, we should focus on integrating our daily actions with the right intentions. Work, relationships, and even rest can be acts of worship when done for Allah’s sake. True success is not about choosing between deen and dunya, but about aligning our entire life with the remembrance of Allah.

One of the conditions for du’ā to be answered is having absolute certainty that Allah will respond. True yaqīn allows you to surrender, knowing that Allah’s timing and plan are always best. When doubt creeps in, it leads to desperation and fear, making it hard to let go. But Allah always answers—sometimes in ways we don’t expect. So, make du’ā with confidence, release it with trust, and let your heart find peace in His wisdom.

One of the most important aspects of fasting in Ramadhān is sincerity (ikhlas). Our fasting should be solely for Allah, not for self-admiration or comparison with others. True sincerity means focusing on our personal journey, worshiping at our own pace, and seeking Allah’s pleasure alone—not validation from people. Even the smallest sincere act is more beloved to Allah than a large insincere one.

Many of us know about Allah, but do we truly know Him? This Ramadhān, take the time to build a deeper connection with Allah by learning His names and attributes, recognising His presence in your life, and speaking to Him from the heart. The more you know Him, the more you will love Him—and in that love, you will find peace, fulfilment, and true closeness to your Creator.

Ramadhān brings a unique calmness that allows us to detach from distractions and reconnect with what truly matters. In this stillness, we find clarity—clarity in our thoughts, our hearts, and our connection with Allah. It is in this state that we realign with our purpose, experience spiritual awakenings, and feel a deeper pull towards prayer, Qur’ān, and sincere du’ā. Embrace this calmness, nurture it, and let it guide you closer to Allah.

Allah’s mercy is infinite, and so are His rewards. A single act of goodness—whether sharing knowledge, encouraging dhikr, or teaching someone a simple du’ā—can multiply beyond measure. Each time it is passed on, your reward continues to grow, possibly for generations. With Allah, nothing is ever lost, and what is done for His sake lasts forever. Keep spreading goodness—you never know how far it will reach.

Often, we ask Allah for specific blessings—wealth, success, love—without realising they may come with hardships. This is why the Prophet ﷺ emphasised adding ‘Āfiyah to our du’ās. ‘Āfiyah means complete well-being—protection from harm, ease without hardship, and blessings without trials. By simply saying, “O Allah, grant me [blessing] with ‘Āfiyah,” we ensure that what we receive is truly good for us, both in this world and the Hereafter. It is a small yet powerful habit that brings immense barakah, peace, and ease into our lives.

Ramadhān is a time when our hearts feel softer, our emotions run deeper, and our connection with Allah strengthens. This is not a coincidence—it is the result of Allah’s increased mercy in this sacred month. His mercy penetrates our hearts, allowing us to feel more, forgive more, and turn to Him more sincerely. This spiritual softness is a gift, a reminder that when distractions fade, we recognise Allah’s presence more clearly. The challenge is to carry this softness beyond Ramadhān, nurturing our connection with Him and keeping our hearts alive with faith.

Sadaqa is more than just money—it’s every act of kindness, every word of encouragement, and every effort to bring ease to someone’s life. This Ramadhān, increase in charity not only through wealth but through du’ā, time, patience, forgiveness, and simple acts of goodness. Every sincere effort is counted, multiplied, and rewarded by Allah. Give with an open heart, and watch how Allah fills your life with barakah.

This Ramadhān, let’s shift our focus from doing to receiving. As women, we are always giving—caring for others, fulfilling responsibilities, and striving to do more. But Ramadhān is a divine invitation to open our hearts and receive Allah’s mercy, love, and peace. When we embrace this month with presence and sincerity, ibādah becomes effortless, and every act flows naturally from the soul. Let go of expectations, welcome the tranquility, and allow Ramadhān to nurture and heal you. Just as Allah is for everyone, Ramadhān is for everyone. It is your time to simply be.

Approach Ramadhān with intention, clarity, and ease. Set realistic goals, block time for ibādah, and minimise distractions. Plan ahead, prioritise the Qur’ān, and dedicate time for khidma. Most importantly, align your heart with Allah’s pleasure—when your mindset is right, everything else falls into place. Let this be your most peaceful and purposeful Ramadhān yet.

Many people-pleasers struggle with feeling unappreciated and unseen, constantly seeking validation from others. But even if they received all the acknowledgment they long for, they would continue chasing more, trapped in an endless cycle of external approval. True fulfilment comes not from the praise of people, but from sincerity in our actions and seeking the pleasure of Allah.

When we stop striving for recognition and shift our focus to pleasing Allah, we free ourselves from the exhausting need for validation. Not being acknowledged can be a hidden blessing—it redirects our hearts away from worldly expectations and toward the One who always sees, always appreciates, and always rewards. In letting go of people-pleasing, we find something far greater: inner peace, true self-worth, and the contentment of living for Allah alone.