True peace comes from surrendering to Allah, trusting His wisdom, and believing that His plan is far better than our own.

We often hold onto worries and desires, thinking we can control outcomes, but real strength lies in letting go and placing our trust in Allah. He sees the struggles we can’t express, answers in ways beyond our understanding, and always grants what is best—even when it doesn’t align with our expectations.

When we truly believe in His perfect timing and infinite wisdom, we find contentment in His decree and peace in His mercy. Let go, trust Him, and know that He is always taking care of you.

A man in East Africa, struggling with depression, found healing through reciting Salawāt on the Prophet ﷺ. After dedicating a day to reciting, his life transformed, bringing peace, clarity, and blessings. Similarly, I experienced profound healing after my divorce through Salawāt, which guided me to the right people and resources, ultimately leading to blessings and peace.

Deen and dunya are not separate; rather, Islam is the foundation that shapes every part of life. Instead of trying to “balance” between the two, we should focus on integrating our daily actions with the right intentions. Work, relationships, and even rest can be acts of worship when done for Allah’s sake. True success is not about choosing between deen and dunya, but about aligning our entire life with the remembrance of Allah.

One of the conditions for du’ā to be answered is having absolute certainty that Allah will respond. True yaqīn allows you to surrender, knowing that Allah’s timing and plan are always best. When doubt creeps in, it leads to desperation and fear, making it hard to let go. But Allah always answers—sometimes in ways we don’t expect. So, make du’ā with confidence, release it with trust, and let your heart find peace in His wisdom.

One of the most important aspects of fasting in Ramadhān is sincerity (ikhlas). Our fasting should be solely for Allah, not for self-admiration or comparison with others. True sincerity means focusing on our personal journey, worshiping at our own pace, and seeking Allah’s pleasure alone—not validation from people. Even the smallest sincere act is more beloved to Allah than a large insincere one.

Many of us know about Allah, but do we truly know Him? This Ramadhān, take the time to build a deeper connection with Allah by learning His names and attributes, recognising His presence in your life, and speaking to Him from the heart. The more you know Him, the more you will love Him—and in that love, you will find peace, fulfilment, and true closeness to your Creator.

Ramadhān brings a unique calmness that allows us to detach from distractions and reconnect with what truly matters. In this stillness, we find clarity—clarity in our thoughts, our hearts, and our connection with Allah. It is in this state that we realign with our purpose, experience spiritual awakenings, and feel a deeper pull towards prayer, Qur’ān, and sincere du’ā. Embrace this calmness, nurture it, and let it guide you closer to Allah.

Allah’s mercy is infinite, and so are His rewards. A single act of goodness—whether sharing knowledge, encouraging dhikr, or teaching someone a simple du’ā—can multiply beyond measure. Each time it is passed on, your reward continues to grow, possibly for generations. With Allah, nothing is ever lost, and what is done for His sake lasts forever. Keep spreading goodness—you never know how far it will reach.

Often, we ask Allah for specific blessings—wealth, success, love—without realising they may come with hardships. This is why the Prophet ﷺ emphasised adding ‘Āfiyah to our du’ās. ‘Āfiyah means complete well-being—protection from harm, ease without hardship, and blessings without trials. By simply saying, “O Allah, grant me [blessing] with ‘Āfiyah,” we ensure that what we receive is truly good for us, both in this world and the Hereafter. It is a small yet powerful habit that brings immense barakah, peace, and ease into our lives.

Ramadhān is a time when our hearts feel softer, our emotions run deeper, and our connection with Allah strengthens. This is not a coincidence—it is the result of Allah’s increased mercy in this sacred month. His mercy penetrates our hearts, allowing us to feel more, forgive more, and turn to Him more sincerely. This spiritual softness is a gift, a reminder that when distractions fade, we recognise Allah’s presence more clearly. The challenge is to carry this softness beyond Ramadhān, nurturing our connection with Him and keeping our hearts alive with faith.

Sadaqa is more than just money—it’s every act of kindness, every word of encouragement, and every effort to bring ease to someone’s life. This Ramadhān, increase in charity not only through wealth but through du’ā, time, patience, forgiveness, and simple acts of goodness. Every sincere effort is counted, multiplied, and rewarded by Allah. Give with an open heart, and watch how Allah fills your life with barakah.

This Ramadhān, let’s shift our focus from doing to receiving. As women, we are always giving—caring for others, fulfilling responsibilities, and striving to do more. But Ramadhān is a divine invitation to open our hearts and receive Allah’s mercy, love, and peace. When we embrace this month with presence and sincerity, ibādah becomes effortless, and every act flows naturally from the soul. Let go of expectations, welcome the tranquility, and allow Ramadhān to nurture and heal you. Just as Allah is for everyone, Ramadhān is for everyone. It is your time to simply be.

Approach Ramadhān with intention, clarity, and ease. Set realistic goals, block time for ibādah, and minimise distractions. Plan ahead, prioritise the Qur’ān, and dedicate time for khidma. Most importantly, align your heart with Allah’s pleasure—when your mindset is right, everything else falls into place. Let this be your most peaceful and purposeful Ramadhān yet.

Many people-pleasers struggle with feeling unappreciated and unseen, constantly seeking validation from others. But even if they received all the acknowledgment they long for, they would continue chasing more, trapped in an endless cycle of external approval. True fulfilment comes not from the praise of people, but from sincerity in our actions and seeking the pleasure of Allah.

When we stop striving for recognition and shift our focus to pleasing Allah, we free ourselves from the exhausting need for validation. Not being acknowledged can be a hidden blessing—it redirects our hearts away from worldly expectations and toward the One who always sees, always appreciates, and always rewards. In letting go of people-pleasing, we find something far greater: inner peace, true self-worth, and the contentment of living for Allah alone.

Ramadhān is a month of receiving—of allowing Allah’s mercy, love, and peace to enter our hearts. Our intentions should not only focus on doing more but also on embracing the tranquility and healing that Ramadhān brings. Alongside fasting, prayer, and charity, let’s set intentions to slow down, let go of guilt, be present, and trust that even the simplest acts of worship—done with sincerity—are deeply valued by Allah. This Ramadhān, may we receive, may we heal, and may we draw closer to our Rabb in a way that lasts beyond the month itself.

When our du’ās seem unanswered, it’s easy to feel discouraged—but Allah always responds, just not always in the way or time we expect. His wisdom surpasses our understanding, and what may seem like a delay is often a form of protection, redirection, or preparation for something better. This piece explores how our thoughts shape our connection with Allah, the dangers of despair, and the importance of unwavering trust in His plan. Instead of giving in to doubt, we must hold onto faith, continue making du’a, and believe that every prayer is heard and counted. Allah’s mercy is limitless, and His response is always perfect.

This took a lot of courage to pen together and even more courage to share.

I am not used to sharing something so personal and deep and it is most certainly out of my comfort zone.

I hope it resonates with those experiencing or have have experienced something similar and inspires and brings hope to whoever needs it.

Ramadhān is more than a month of fasting—it is a divine opportunity to slow down, reflect, and realign with our true purpose. It unveils our inner selves, separating sincere self-motivation from external influences, and teaches us that true growth starts from within. By fostering self-awareness, spiritual grounding, and conscious engagement with the world, Ramadhān helps us overcome mental and spiritual obstacles, reminding us that transformation is not about waiting for the perfect moment but about making intentional shifts in our hearts and minds.

Surah Al-Baqarah is a divine source of protection, healing, and abundant blessings. The Prophet ﷺ emphasised its immense power—reciting it shields homes from Shaytan, brings barakah to life, and removes hardships. It is a fortress against spiritual harm, a means of divine healing, and a pathway to deeper connection with Allah.

Incorporate it into your daily life by reciting it in parts, playing it in your home, and using its blessings in everyday routines. Experience firsthand how this powerful surah transforms your life, fills your heart with peace, and attracts divine mercy.

Judgment has been breaking generations, leaving people feeling unworthy and overwhelmed. Islam is a Deen of mercy, yet many experience pressure and unrealistic expectations from others, leading to emotional and spiritual harm. Instead of shaming, let’s be more empathetic, encouraging, and merciful—just as we hope for Allah’s mercy. This post is inspired by those feeling unloved by Allah due to others’ harsh words. Remember, your worth is with Him, not people. Let’s build an ummah that nurtures, not repels.